2023 · From the album Take-off - EP
Landing in Love
by HANRORO
The reading
A song about reaching the point where you can finally forgive a past self, and the person who hurt you, without pretending it didn't hurt
02 · Interpretation
HANRORO's 'Landing in Love': Forgiveness as the Place You Eventually Touch Down
A landing, not a takeoff
From an EP titled Take-off, 'Landing in Love' is the song that does the opposite of what the project's name suggests. It is about coming down, settling, accepting where you have ended up after a long flight through heartbreak. Released in August 2023, it belongs to a wave of Korean indie songwriting where the language is plain and the emotional accounting is exact, and HANRORO uses that plainness to map a very specific moment: the second after grief stops being active and becomes something you can hold.
The opening lines establish a double farewell. The narrator has let go of someone who dreamed of forever, and then let go of the self who mourned that person. What remains, she says, is a 'dullness' that grew up in her because she could not avoid it. That word choice matters. She does not call it peace or healing. She calls it 무던함, a kind of evenness that arrives whether you wanted it or not. The song begins, in other words, with an honest admission that time does not so much heal as it sands down.
The glass of regret
The second movement looks backward. The narrator says the version of her in that past place cried more than anyone, and the version of her in this present place knows it better than anyone. The continuity between those two selves is the whole emotional argument of the song. She is not pretending to be a new person. She is the same one, now looking down into a glass filled with regret. The image is small and exact, which is why it works: regret is something you can sit with at a table, not a storm you are inside.
Then the chorus pivots. She asks what she was so envious of, what made her whirl so violently. It is a question directed inward as much as outward. Jealousy and turbulence are framed as her own weather, not just the other person's behavior. And from that admission comes the song's central promise, repeated like a vow she is talking herself into: even so, I will forgive you, and I will come to love you.
The verb tense is crucial. She does not say she loves him now. She says she 'will come to,' 사랑하게 될 거야. Forgiveness here is a destination she is moving toward, not a state she has reached. The whole song is about trusting that you will get there.
The broken-glass bridge
The second verse delivers the song's sharpest image. The narrator remembers being handed a jagged stone when she was already anxious, and from the cracks between the broken pieces, tears leak out, and she lets them burst. It can be read as a memory of being given more to carry than she could hold, and of finally allowing the pressure to release. The line about a pain that hurt, but is allowed to hurt again, refuses the cleaner story in which forgiveness means the wound closes. In this song, you forgive while the cut is still open. That is what makes the forgiveness believable.
Why it lands
HANRORO's delivery favors restraint over catharsis, and the production stays modest enough that the repeated chorus feels less like a climax than a mantra. By the time 사랑하게 될 거야 is repeated at the end, almost trailing off, the listener understands that this is not a triumphant arrival. It is a person standing at a window saying the sentence until it becomes true.
That is why the song has found an audience beyond its initial release. It offers a model of forgiveness that does not require forgetting, performing closure, or making the other person right. It only requires the willingness to keep saying you will get there. For listeners working through their own slow landings, that distinction is the difference between a song that comforts and one that actually helps.
Themes catalogued
03 · Lyrics
"Landing in Love"
슬퍼하던 날까지도 떠나보냈네
오늘의 나에게 남아있는 건
피하지 못해 자라난 무던함뿐야
그곳의 나는 얼마만큼 울었는지
이곳의 나는 누구보다 잘 알기에
후회로 가득 채운 유리잔만
내려다보네
아 뭐가 그리 샘이 났길래
그토록 휘몰아쳤던가
그럼에도 불구하고
나는 너를 용서하고
사랑하게 될 거야
아파했지만 또 아파도 되는 기억
불안한 내게 모난 돌을 쥐여주던
깨진 조각 틈 새어 나온 눈물
터뜨려 보네
아 뭐가 그리 샘이 났길래
그토록 휘몰아쳤던가
그럼에도 불구하고
나는 너를 용서하고
사랑하게 될 거야
아 뭐가 그리 샘이 났길래
그토록 휘몰아쳤던가
그럼에도 불구하고
나는 너를 용서하고
사랑하게 될 거야
사랑하게 될 거야
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04 · FAQ
Frequently asked
What does the title 'Landing in Love' mean in the context of HANRORO's song?
What does the line about a glass full of regret mean in 'Landing in Love'?
Who is HANRORO singing to in 'Landing in Love'?
Why does HANRORO keep repeating '사랑하게 될 거야' at the end of 'Landing in Love'?
What is the meaning of the broken stone and tears image in 'Landing in Love'?
How does 'Landing in Love' fit into HANRORO's 2023 EP 'Take-off'?
Why do listeners connect with 'Landing in Love' as a breakup song?
05 · Discography