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How It Feels (feat. Wale)

by Mannywellz

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The reading

A collaboration about trying to name the vertigo of new love while still carrying the wreckage of an old one you helped break

02 · Interpretation

Mannywellz and Wale's 'How It Feels': Love as a Question You Can't Answer Yet

E Editorial Desk

Mannywellz opens the song in sensory bewilderment. He compares the person he's drawn to with petrichor, the smell of rain hitting dry earth, and asks how they move the way they do. The questions aren't rhetorical flirtation; they sound like a man genuinely trying to diagnose what is happening to his body. By the time he admits his heart is at war, the romance has already been reframed as conflict rather than arrival.

The hook does the song's central work. He asks whether this is what falling in love feels like, and answers himself: I don't know. The comparison he reaches for is faith. Love, in his framing, isn't an emotion you verify. It's something you have to believe in before you have evidence. That one analogy carries most of the song's weight; everything after it is a test of whether he can actually believe.

Wale's verse: the ledger

Wale enters with a different register. Where Mannywellz is standing in the rain asking what it is, Wale is already keeping accounts. He distinguishes between being telepathic and being empathetic, a small but careful line: he's not claiming to read her mind, only to feel what she lets through. He says he's done with his options, that he wanted her to arrive, and then describes the collapse that followed, cloud lifted, gravity gone. The verse pivots on a hard line about accountability not counting if it comes too high up the chain of damage. It's a rapper's refusal of the easy redemption arc. Owning the harm doesn't undo it.

The second half of his verse is a quiet confession. He insists no one can say they didn't try, admits his eyes won't stop leaking, calls himself defeated and places the fault on himself. The phrase love is a tragedy if you don't get it right lands as the song's blunt thesis statement. There's no villain here, just two people who mishandled something fragile.

Back to Mannywellz: the aftermath

Mannywellz returns to describe the shape of the fallout. He's either buried in bed or on a therapy couch. He mentions anxious attachment style by name, which places the song firmly in a generation that has absorbed clinical vocabulary into its love songs. The apology is specific: he should call, but he's too timid. The impulse to reach out and the inability to act on it are presented as the same wound.

The closing question, why wave too sweet a goodbye, suggests the ending wasn't clean enough to let him move on. A harsh goodbye would have been easier to metabolize than a tender one. He returns to the hook still asking whether this is love, and the repetition changes its meaning. The first time, the question was about a new person. By the end, it could be about the one he lost, or about his capacity to feel it at all.

Why it lands

The song works because it refuses to resolve its own question. Mannywellz builds the track around an unanswered hook, and Wale's verse supplies the reason the answer stays out of reach: once you've been the person who broke something, every new feeling has to be interrogated. Faith, in that light, isn't just a metaphor for love. It's the only thing left when your own judgment has already failed you once.

As a two-and-a-half-minute single, it doesn't try to be definitive. It stages a feeling, holds it up to the light, and admits the holder isn't sure what he's looking at. That modesty is rare in a genre that usually prefers certainty.

Themes catalogued

uncertain love accountability anxious attachment regret faith

03 · Lyrics

"How It Feels (feat. Wale)"

How do you smell like that

You are, in fact, my petrichor

May I be sprung

How do you move like that

Through hell and back

My heart's at war

Is this how it feels to fall in love with you

I don't know

Is this how it feels to fall in love with you? I don't know

But only faith can feel like that, oh

But only faith can feel like that

But only if they can feel like that

Biggie biggie, heavy heavy

If it's something better than me, baby, better tell me

I'm not a telepathic nigga I'm empathetic

That means I'm feeling everything, but only if you let me

Okay, I'm done with my options, I wanted you to arrive

Me up that cloud now, now my gravity die

I tried lifting you up, I tried putting it down

High-taking accountability don't even count

Hey look, not one time y'all can't even say that we ain't tried

Naw, look, shawty, and my eyes won't stop leaking

I'm defeated, and it's my fault, okay

Love is a tragedy if you don't get it right

I carry the scars, I lost a formidable fight

I'm buried in bed unless I'm by a therapy couch, just earned us out, my flaws

Put a lid on my life for literal light

You are not, I'd rather be blind

I probably should call but now I'm way too timid to try

Anxious attachment style, I'm deeply sorry

But why wave too sweet a goodbye? (Is this how it feels to fall in love with you)

I don't know

Is this how it feels to fall in love with you? I don't know

But only faith can feel like that, oh

But only faith can feel like that

But only faith can feel like that

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04 · FAQ

Frequently asked

What does the petrichor line in 'How It Feels' mean?
Mannywellz tells the person they are, in fact, his petrichor, meaning the smell of rain on dry ground. It's a way of saying their presence lands on him like relief after a drought. The image sets up the song's early mood of sensory overwhelm before the lyrics turn toward doubt.
Who is Wale's verse on 'How It Feels' addressed to?
Wale doesn't name anyone, but he addresses a partner he feels he lost through his own fault. He admits he's defeated, that his eyes won't stop leaking, and that love is a tragedy if you don't get it right. The verse reads as a late apology aimed at someone already gone.
What does 'only faith can feel like that' mean in the song?
It's Mannywellz's answer to his own question about whether this is love. He compares the feeling to religious faith, something you have to commit to without proof. The line reframes falling in love as a leap rather than a conclusion you reach through evidence.
Why does Mannywellz mention anxious attachment style?
He names it as the reason he can't bring himself to call, even though he knows he should. By using the clinical term and apologizing for it, he's locating his failure inside a pattern he recognizes but hasn't fixed. It's one of the song's most direct admissions of self-awareness without self-forgiveness.
What is the meaning of 'love is a tragedy if you don't get it right'?
Wale delivers the line as a kind of thesis. He's saying love doesn't fail quietly; when it's mishandled, it becomes a wound that keeps costing you. The line frames the whole song as a report from someone who has already paid that cost.
How does 'How It Feels' fit with Mannywellz's other music?
Mannywellz has built a catalog around slow, soul-leaning R&B that treats intimacy as something worth examining rather than celebrating. 'How It Feels' continues that approach, pairing his conversational cadence with Wale's rap verse to stage two angles on the same uncertainty.
Why is the song structured as a question that never gets answered?
The hook asks whether this is what falling in love feels like and answers I don't know, and that uncertainty never resolves. Keeping the question open is the point: the song is about the moment before clarity, when past damage and present feeling are hard to tell apart.
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